
Iceland. Yes, Iceland.
Surprised? You shouldn’t be.
Apparently, Icelanders get something in their heads and they go for it. They don’t hold back. They don’t let public opinion, naysayers, fears or doubts hold them back from unleashing the creativity from within. Icelanders don’t see failure as something to be avoided and this frees them to create.
And this makes them happy.
According to writer Peter Bregman:
According to the World Database of Happiness (yes, there is one), Iceland is the happiest place on earth. That’s right, Iceland. Yes, I know it’s cold and dark six months out of the year there. I’m just giving you the data.
The secret to their happiness? Eric Weiner, Author of The Geography of Bliss, traveled to Iceland to find out. After interviewing a number of Icelanders, Weiner discovered that their culture doesn’t stigmatize failure. Icelanders aren’t afraid to fail — or to be imperfect — and so they’re more willing to pursue what they enjoy. That’s one reason Iceland has more artists per capita than any other nation. “There’s no one on the island telling them they’re not good enough, so they just go ahead and sing and paint and write,” Weiner writes.
Which makes them incredibly productive. They don’t just sit around thinking they’d like to do something. They do it. According to the psychologist Mihaly Czikszentmihalyi, who wrote the book Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, “It is not the skills we actually have that determine how we feel but the ones we think we have.”
So if you think you’re good at something, whether or not you are, you’ll do it. The converse is also true: if you think you aren’t good enough at something, you won’t do it.
What would you try today if you weren’t afraid of failure?
- Ask out that girl in chemistry class?
- Open that coffee shop you’ve always wanted to?
- Pick up the paintbrush again and create?
- Plant that church that you know God has called you to plant?
Iceland is onto something. After all, they’re home to one of the most innovative bands ever to walk the face of the earth, Sigur Rós.
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