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Do You Have Regrets?

December 30th, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Life

The following is a powerful video. It talks about regret and the things we do in life that cause it. Regret is one of the only emotions that you cannot rectify. If you regret something it’s because you have already done it (or not done it, whatever the case may be). No one regrets something they’ve yet to do.

What do your regret from this past year? What caused regret in you in 2008?

Me? I regret squandering opportunities that were right in front of me. Laziness is the mother of all pacifiers, isn’t it?

I regret believing that I can’t do something when deep down, I know I can.

But here’s to a regret-free 2009. Here’s to a year filled with God-breathed moments of redemption from the past year’s regrets. Take a look … What are your regrets?



HT: Regrets via Dave Sandell.

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Rick Warren and Barack Obama

December 22nd, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Life, Politics

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The inclusion of Pastor Rick Warren in Barack Obama’s inaugural day activities has caused quite a stir. Warren will lead the inaugural day prayer on January 20th, 2009 as Barack Obama becomes the 44th President of the United States. This has a lot of groups up-in-arms primarily because of Warren’s position on gay marriage: He doesn’t buy it.

Warren was a vocal proponent of Prop 8, the amendment to California’s constitution that solidified marriage in the state’s eyes was between a man and a woman. He’s also compared gay marriage to adults marrying children (some call that incest), and this has gay rights groups very, very upset about his involvement in anything Obama-related. “He doesn’t think like us!” they cry. “He’s a bigot - he doesn’t agree with our way of life! He hates gays!” This is, by and large, how Warren has been portrayed by the media.

On the flip side, we have Christians in this country who openly called Barack Obama “Hitler” during the past campaign season and likened his election to the coming of the antiChrist. I was forwarded numerous emails (as I’m sure you were to) from people of faith declaring that Obama was a closet Muslim and that once he became President he would reenact Sharia law. He also was a closet homosexual, a closet crack addict, and a closet black liberationist theologian, as evidenced by his attendance (for 20 years, don’tcha know?) at Jeremiah Wright’s church. It seemed no matter what Obama did, he was always doing it under a shroud of secrecy and could never keep the Christian population happy.

Ultimately, here’s what I don’t understand: Proponents of gay marriage say, “Accept our opinion … Or else!” Opponents of gay marriage, essentially, say the same thing, “Accept our opinion … Or else!” Each side attempts to intelligently argue their rationale for holding their respective position (i.e. “it’s not a choice to be gay, I was born like this” and “the Bible says marriage is between a man and a woman.”) But when push comes to shove, each end of the argument breaks down to a grown-up version of “I’m taking my ball and going home.” In a word: Whining.

God bless Barack Obama for reaching out to Rick Warren. God bless Rick Warren for reaching out to Obama. I like what openly gay columnist Bob Ostertag said in the Huffington Post, “I am delighted that there is a new generation of evangelicals that thinks the biggest issue isn’t homosexuality but global climate change, AIDS, and poverty [...] I am so ready to make common cause with them. I couldn’t care less about what they think of gay marriage.” Amen.

When did disagreeing with someone start to mean the same thing as hating them?

Update: Want to hear a lively discussion about this very topic? Tune in on 12.22 to 98.3 WOW-FM from 2 to 3:15 pm CST. I’ll be on Bradshaw’s show in the Des Moines metro area. Otherwise, check it out online here.

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You Can’t Make This Stuff Up.

December 8th, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Church Follies, Life

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Commenter Alex pointed this out in “Praying For a Bailout.” I can’t decide whether this is just well-intentions gone wrong, irony, or full-blown stupidity.

You are looking at a picture of some Christians praying over the Bull outside of the New York Stock Exchange, petitioning God to save the U.S. financial scene. “Save us from financial judgment,” they prayed.

You don’t need to be a Biblical scholar to see some similarities to Exodus 32. As my brother put it, “Didn’t this happen in the Old Testament or something?” Yes brother, yes it did.

One thing’s for sure: I just found a killer sermon illustration for this week. Hands off the Bull! Ack!

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Praying For a Bailout.

December 8th, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Life, Politics

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Government bailouts are a terrible idea. Or so I thought. The idea of “We The People” as co-owners in everything from banking to private residences to the auto industry has never appealed to me. “Is this how capitalism is supposed to work?” was the pervading thought in my head.

With the heads of the “Big Three” (GM, Ford, Chrysler) pandering Capitol Hill for some much needed dough, I thought I had reached a place where I could say, “if they fail, they need to fail.” After all, businesses close all the time (Kate’s in West Glen and Billy Joe’s most recently here in the DSM metro) with little to no help from the government. “What makes the ‘Big Three’ so special?”

The answer to that is a complicated one and outside of my understanding. There are a lot of jobs at stake (some estimates say 2 million); there’s a lot of money at stake (execs are asking for $25 billion); there’s a lot of emotions involved on either side of the struggle.

Bailouts seem to be an easy way to “fix” (and by “fix” I mean temporarily stop the bleeding) a gaping economic head wound. You may not agree with that opinion, and that is perfectly okay. However, I saw something on the news this morning that made me step back and think, “This isn’t as easy as a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer” when questioning whether or not to bail out a a struggling industry.

I watched a story on how Detroit churches were “praying for a bailout.” They showed footage from services held in Detroit churches this weekend past where the pastors were fervently leading their congregation in prayers to God asking for Congress to pass the proposed “bridge loan bailout.” Here are fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, faithful followers of Jesus, asking God for something that I fundamentally do not agree with. Wow. How’s that for a test of your theological beliefs?

To a single mother of three who lives in Detroit and works at a GM plant putting fenders on cars for a living, this bailout is a very good thing for her family. It will allow her to continue in her job, which provides a salary, which provides her the ability to buy food, shelter, clothing, etc. for her family. Contrast that with someone like me who thinks bailouts are a bad idea. Someone as far removed from this situation as possible, other than the fact that I drive a car and will probably buy one another one in the future. Simply put, I would prefer this bailout to not pass.

It got me thinking about perspective. God’s perspective, more precisely. This whole issue boils down to perspective. If I see God as one who “picks and chooses” what prayers he answers, I will have a strange picture of God. If, for whatever reason, this bailout doesn’t pass, does that mean that God did not answer the prayers of our single mom in Detroit? Does it mean he did answer the prayers of those faithful Christians who are praying against a bailout? Either situation puts one party in an uncomfortable position.

As Americans, we can argue all day long regarding whether or not the bailout is a good idea. But what we cannot do is teetotal a situation as complex as this one is with a blanket of “wholly good” or “wholly bad.” As a Christian, I cannot assume that I possess the knowledge of what God’s sovereign will is with this situation. There’s nothing in the Bible about governments bailouts of giant conglomerate auto manufacturers.

I have to be willing to believe that I could, in fact, be wrong about my beliefs in this situation.

So, to my brothers and sisters in Detroit and to those around the world who will be affected by this decision (either way), I pray that your trust and faith in God will increase, no matter what. That, I believe, is the faithful position to hold.

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Careful, This May Blow Your Mind

December 3rd, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Life, Social Media

Careful now … This one could give you whiplash. This completely blew my mind.

The following information has implications on how we do everything. Make no mistake about it.

Teachers: This is the world you’ll teach in.
Pastors: This is the world you’ll minister in.
Parents: This is the world you’ll parent in.
You: This is the world you will exist in.

Buckle up.


HT: Rhett Smith

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Are You Having An Affair?

December 1st, 2008 | Comments | Filed in God, Life

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I think I just witnessed two people carrying on an affair.

Let me be clear, I don’t know this for a fact. It’s not like people who are in extramarital affairs run around wearing t-shirts that say, “The choice for me? Adultery!” It’s not that simple. I have no concrete proof for what I’m about to share, just a lot of circumstantial evidence. Bear with me.

The past few weeks after Monday morning coffee with a friend, a young couple has come in to the coffee shop we visit (Amici espresso). They both wear wedding rings. They seem to both work at the same place (same ID badge). They both enjoy their coffee. They like to share intimate details about their lives with one another (I’m not eavesdropping, I promise. It’s a small coffee shop and they literally sit down next to me. They don’t seem to be covert in what they’re discussing either.)

I can’t but overhear their discussion. They young woman will say, “So-and-so did this at the bar this weekend,” the young guy will reply, “Such-and-such is a slob and won’t pick up their stuff.” Normal, everyday stuff that you tell a co-worker on a Monday after a long weekend. Not stuff you would tell a spouse as if you hadn’t seen them in days. If they’re married to each other, they must go days and days without talking, all to catch up on a Monday morning in a coffee shop.

It’s not like what they’re telling each other is illicit, but it’s the way they say it to each other that makes me think they’re having an affair. The context of the conversation is off if they are indeed married to each other. But I don’t think they are. I think they’re married to other people and they’re having an affair with one another. A secret (or not so secret) coffee shop meeting; a rendezvous after work; a weekend trip disguised as a business outing.

There’s an intimacy at work in the way they address each other. An intimacy that needs to be reserved for their spouse and their spouse alone. They are playing with fire and they will get burned … Eventually. I can only imagine the rush of emotion of carrying on an affair: The secrecy, the lust-filled emotions, the emotional high of “pulling a fast one” on people. But I can’t help but wonder, what’s it going to feel like when they get caught?

I asked the question this morning on Twitter as this couple was next to me, “Do you say something to people who are having an affair, even if you don’t know them personally?” As you can imagine, I got quite a few colorful responses. What do you think?

The bottom line is this: If you’re having an affair, stop it. You may think you’re being discreet. You may think you’re being secret. But you’re not. You never know who listening (like a pastor with a blog, for instance). You may think it brings you life. You may think the other person “gets you,” but they don’t. They’re selfish. And so are you. You’ll destroy your life.

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The Thanksgiving Day Post.

November 27th, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Life

What am I thankful for?

  1. If you’ve been following me on Twitter, I’m thankful for the new relationships I’ve formed. Some of you live where I live (Des Moines, IA); some of you don’t (Australia, New York, Texas, California). It’s been such an encouragement to know that there are other like-minded thinkers out there.
  2. If you’ve been reading this blog, I’m thankful for the support in the my new hobby. Your comments on the blog, and in person, brighten my day.
  3. I am, of course, thankful for my family and friends. I am thankful for my wife and our journey together the last two years. I am thankful for my job and my church.
  4. I’m thankful that I am thankful. Some people live their whole lives wishing for the “next big thing” and never truly being content. I’m thankful that I can be content, but eagerly anticipate the future.
  5. I’m thankful for the fact that I’m now, officially, going to be able to start enjoying Christmas music now that the “Thanksgiving Day” boundary.

Lastly, I’m thankful that I’m about to head out the door and stuff my face with Thanksgiving Day goodness with our blessed family.

Peace to you all. Happy Thanksgiving.

For All You American Idol Fans with Daughters…

November 19th, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Fun, Life

This is one of the best uses of YouTube I’ve ever seen. Capturing real life as it happens. Not going to lie though, this video makes me nervous to have daughters someday.


(For those who don’t know, these young women are upset by David Cook beating out David Archuleta in this year’s American Idol finale. As you can see, they take their Idol pretty seriously.1)
HT: Ragamuffin Soul

  1. FWIW, my wife and I reacted somewhat similarly. []

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25 Things I Don’t Understand About the Election.

November 4th, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Life, Politics

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I don’t understand politics.

I don’t understand why people allow themselves to get so upset. On November 5th, Starbucks will still brew coffee, traffic lights will still turn green, and the U.S. will still be the U.S.

I don’t understand conservative talk radio.

I don’t understand media bias. At all.

I don’t understand how McCain won the GOP spot on the ticket.

I don’t understand why Obama smokes.

I don’t understand attack ads. Why not just tell me why you’d be the best candidate?

I don’t understand Focus on the Family. I don’t understand how someone(s) can honestly state they know which way God is leaning politically.

I don’t understand the debate between Pro-Life and Pro-Choice. It’s not that easy. It usually never is.

I don’t understand extreme liberalism.

I don’t understand extreme conservatism.

I don’t get people who don’t vote.

I don’t understand the electoral college but I feel like I should.

I don’t know when the U.S. became the center of the universe.

I don’t understand how you can compare Obama to Hitler. It’s been done, numerous times. I don’t get that.

I don’t understand how five-year-olds can learn to dislike each other based on how their parents vote. That’s a mystery.

I don’t understand how Katie Couric can continue to do her job with any sense of integrity after her interview with Sarah Palin.

I don’t get why a majority of young people are voting for Obama and a majority of older people are voting for McCain.

I don’t get why McCain can’t lift his arms above his head. I know there’s torture involved, but I can’t figure out why his arms can’t heal.

I don’t understand why, even if it’s true, people are so upset that Jeremiah Wright is a black liberation theologian.

I don’t understand why there’s not a viable third party option.

I don’t understand how they count votes so fast.

I don’t understand the reasons behind choosing an elephant and a donkey as a mascot.

I don’t understand how some politicians sleep at night.

I don’t understand the obsessive outrage of Roe v. Wade.

Interested in checking out realtime results for the election? Check out election.twitter.com.

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Jesus the Mounty.

October 10th, 2008 | Comments | Filed in Church Follies, Life


My friend Dave sent me a link to this video. It’s almost tragic, but at the same time I find myself refreshed every time I watch it. The band is called “Sonseed”:

“Sonseed was a Christian pop band formed at the Church of Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Brooklyn, New York in the late 1970s. Their sole album, First Fruit, was released in 1983. A proposed follow-up, Just Can’t Get Enough (Of Jesus!!!), with more new wave and New Romantic elements, never saw official release, but some bootleg tracks have surfaced.” Source: Wikipedia.

Picture 1.pngBy far, my favorite Sonseed band member is this guy, Beardy. Apparently he doesn’t get a name, so I’ll just name him after his sweet man-beard. Watch Beardy awkwardly swing his arms throughout the video. He looks like he’s a puppet or something.

So enjoy, friends! Enjoy the Son… seed! Zap!

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